Over 30? How to get engaged within six months.

  • By Paul Numan
  • Posted 13 November 2026

Over 30? How to get engaged within six months.

The optimistic Katch timetable.

Week 1: Join Katch Unlimited Dates. Tell us about yourself—and that marriage is the goal. We start arranging private introductions. Two dates already. Your mother senses a disturbance.

Weeks 2–3: Three or four Katch dates a week, plus a few second dates. Your love life now requires a diary.

Week 4: Chemistry with three. A favourite emerges. You decide to go exclusive. Cancel the other dates, please. We’re matchmaking, not producing Love Island.

Weeks 5–7: You’re a couple. Planning a weekend away. About to discover how they behave at an airport.

Weeks 8–10: Meet the parents. First argument. Make-up sex. A surprisingly productive fortnight.

Weeks 11–13: Move in together. Start saying “we”. Discover that “I’m quite tidy” was a creative interpretation.

Weeks 14–16: You’re thinking, “This is the one.” Start looking at rings. Quietly check their finger size like a romantic little criminal.

Months 5–6: Ask the question. Hopefully get a yes. Your mother has already booked the church.

Ambitious? Absolutely. Everyone moves at their own pace. But meeting someone who actually wants marriage is a decent start.

Katch arranges the dates. You bring the commitment.

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